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You know I am glad I know who are NOT my friends now. It makes life much easier.

I never ever said I saw a police report on

fermatojam NEVER. The quoted text. Yes. I said that. I was lied to. Was I wrong there. Yes. Is it all my fault. No Fucking Way in Ten Thousand Hells.

Apparently it wasn't the only fucking place I was wrong.

You know I've stood by people in this fandom because I thought I could trust them. I thought they were my friends. And they shit on me.

So I'm done. Don't you dare email me or contact me in any way shape or form if you blame me for this mess. No really. Don't you dare.

I kept my original pre-enlightment post with a lovely strike through it because although I've been misled, lied to and occasion occasionally a first class bitch I DON"T FUCKING LIE TO PEOPLE OR ABOUT THEM. And I take responsibility when I shit the bed. I don't smear shit on someone nearby and point at them.

So there is oooooooold wank being muck raked. I have pretty much retreated to the edge of this fandom because I don't have time for crap like this and because it is not worth the energy it takes to deal with it. For me. Everyone else can do whatever they like, obviously. I like things both very salty and very spicy--not everyone else does and I wouldn't expect them to.

But because I've been asked here is my official info:

I was on the first fandom_scruples blacklist. My reaction? So much laughing.

The rest of it? The whole Loui aka fermatojam is a stalker and Ms. Scribe had to give up her job. Even if I had the old emails, I'm not sure what an old email would prove? Because all that info could have been easily faked. The info I had I believed to be real.

I don't have the old emails now. They were on my old yahoo account which has been wiped clean. And my old work account which is also long gone.

I'm surprised to see apologies and other weirdness and people feeling they need to defend any of this ancient history... But again see tastes differ thing above. People acted stupidly on all sides. Right now you should just let it go. If it amuses people to rake up this shit and read it like some kind of fandom history, well, who cares?

Frankly the fact that an IP address is matched to a post doesn't mean much because it is pretty easy to fake an IP so that lj logs your anon posts or sockpuppet posts as, say, some you don't like and want to fuck with. That was Louis's MO. He did that. He said he did that to AngieJ. He said he did it to Ms.Scribe.

How do I know that? He posted that that was what he did. I remember being skeptical and then googling it to see if it was possibly and it turns out that it was if you had some knowledge. Also, I was in charge of security for Nimbus 2003. I had his full name, home addess, and actual IP. I believed he was a real person with a grudge and a serious lack of mental balance. I checked every single Nimbus regsistration for him and two other person non grata. He had threatened to show up at Nimbus in Orlando and cause problems. Empty threats or perhaps he thought it was too expensive just to go and give someone a hard time.

I guess that won't sway anyone who wants to just wank or he needs some kind of DNA evidence to be convinced. All I've got is what I remember. And my memory is pretty good, but frankly I've wanted to forget all this crap. But that isn't really why I am posting this. I've been poked by several people for back up. And I just don't have anything solid.

I don't owe anyone any apologies. And I have no idea why this shit is being raked up again. Unless it has fossilized and is now pretty pretty geodes. I guess if you're new to fandom or dislike certain people this is all good fun for you. Cheers. Drink up. or er, Lube up?